Doctor In The House #1 - Polygamy

He expressed about polygamy and he are against it. To him, polygamy is only valid when war occurred at which men were killed. The number of men is thus reduced. When there is no war, there is no need for polygamy. He argued that, there is no difference in numbers between the population of men and women in Malaysia. In summary, whoever married more than one, he argued, deprived of another man a chance to get married.

Unfortunately, there is no restriction on war about getting married more than one if we check from the sources (Al-Quran and al-Hadith). Interpretations differ though between the scholars. So I guess, it is open to interpretations. Those who want to have more wives, will do it anyways.

I know a person in Adelaide. He is a Lebanese descendant. At a country where marriage of more than one is not recognized, he has two wives. When asked about it - he responded quite sarcastically - yeah, it is better for us to have mistresses in the thousands rather than marry up to 4. I add, yes, it is better to legalize gay marriage.

How he did it? Simple, just do it like as you do normally when you want to get married. The only thing missing is that you cannot register that second marriage with the authority. Yes, there will be consequences but again, it is better than not getting married as what the western couples normally do. In the end, following the syariah is the most important.